transfem sysadmin that’s tired from working at work
Engaged to my lovely fiancé
Late 20s
Computer nerd by trade, not a programmer.
Thigh high socks are life

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Cake day: August 12th, 2025

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  • Ahhh spicy is not the right word I realize , but i meant to compliment on ur writing style which is nice n refreshing :)

    Also thank u! I’m happy in meeting u too! It is rare but nice meeting ppl on places like here where ppl can be nice~

    I do like ur pfp (I saw that clippy went away)- that looks like a nice drawing 😊 But also, it could be neat to see a self drawn fluttershy :3

    Also thank u Smorty! It is daytime and I’ll try my best to have a nice day :) I wish u a nice day or evening or nighttime too, ur amazing by being u!




  • Omg omg haiii Smorty!!! :D

    Pinkie pie is my fav character so I made it my pfp 😊

    I love coming across ur comments btw (esp the spicy ones 2), they kinda encourage me to try n make comments when I has the energy to do it too!!

    Also, I’m so happy to hear u might wanna update ur pfp cuz of me! U totally can do it 100%!! I love seeing colourful ponies around and they make me happy when I see them so that’s sorta why I have pinkie pie here!! 🩷🩵🤍













  • Yeah, I feel this so hard. I only got diagnosed with ADHD in my mid 20s and now just starting the process of getting assessed for Autism.

    It’s been a rough childhood with my family taking the route of learning through negative reinforcement, which did not feel consistent and sometimes the punishment was sometimes spaced far enough in time from when I did a bad thing that I didn’t know what I was being punished for sometimes. It also didn’t help that I got bullied a lot in school if I’m just not left alone, sometimes even initiated by staff too (not the teachers).

    I’ve only found my childhood psychologist report recently that I was recommended to get tested for a condition that has long since been rolled into the autism spectrum.

    The funny thing is my family didn’t want me to “catch” autism so I never got assessed.

    Now I get to maybe be diagnosed AND work on the issues I have from what I used to think was all my fault, that I was lazy, etc etc.

    Good fun! /s