• @TransplantedSconie@lemm.ee
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    Wtf dude lmao.

    These guys REALLY want to fuck close family lmao.

    “My daddy fucked the shit out of mah sister momma, just like his daddy cousin did to his momma! And ba GAWD I’m gonna fuck my cousin!!” - Jim Bob Smith Senator.

    banjo music intensifies

      • @RedditWanderer@lemmy.world
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        421 year ago

        What’s your point?

        We’re literally saying it makws no sense that this ban would get pushback. The fact so many other states allow it just makes the point.

        Americans are weird when it comes to cousins…

        • NoIWontPickAName
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          81 year ago

          Why does it matter who’s fucking who?

          Aren’t we in the middle of a big ass motherfucking fight for people to be able to be with who they want to be with, minus adults and children?

          • NoIWontPickAName
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            61 year ago

            When the fuck did we start being pro stereotype?

            This is another big fight that I remember us being in the middle of right now.

      • Cruxifux
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        If those states allow first cousin marrying then yeah, that’s cousin fucker states.

        Most of the world doesn’t live in the states man, did you think naming other states was going to offend people? You guys and all your weird hillbilly sex stuff need to get your shit together man. It’s embarrassing to see.

        • @Ranvier@sopuli.xyz
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          It’s legal in most of the world, including most of Europe. I don’t think legality is necessarily the greatest guide for how often it actually happens or social attitudes towards it.

          https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Cousin_marriage

          There’s a map in there too of prevalence though and United States isn’t anywhere close to the most prevelant, it’s extremely rare. What’s going on down in Italy, Spain, Portugal, and Belgium though?

          • Cruxifux
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            81 year ago

            Ya know, there’s definitely some towns where I’m from that have shallow gene pools, not gonna lie. But I live in Alberta, we’re sometimes the Texas of Canada, and sometimes the Alabama.

              • Cruxifux
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                Yeah. Pretty much everything south of Calgary and north of Edmonton is Alabama. I’ve lived in every city in the province, and worked in a lot of the towns. It’s pretty crazy in some of the towns here man.

            • @Ranvier@sopuli.xyz
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              That chart technically includes second degree cousins and any closer relations. So if you don’t count second degree cousins it might be less. But yeah there’s a tradition of parellel cousin marriage especially in parts of the middle east, north Africa, and south Asia.

            • Cruxifux
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              Yeah I actually knew that one from when I used to listen to Joe Rogan and Gavin Mcinnes was on there. He’s a fucking goof but that fact was disturbing

          • @barsoap@lemm.ee
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            Dunno about Belgium but Italy, Spain and Portugal have quite communal family structures, at least by European standards. Not necessarily in the living together sense but in the you’ll definitely see the whole extended shebang every other holiday sense.

        • @Fredselfish@lemmy.world
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          You read any classic novels from England? Marrying cousins is quite normal at one point in human history. I guess it still is in some backward states.

          • @RedditWanderer@lemmy.world
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            It’s not just England. Marrying cousins was considered common practice among royalty and nobles in the past, not “normal” for everyday people.

            They would inbreed to try to keep blood “pure”, or to keep the family in power, or to sell off their family for power. People knew a long time ago this was bad and caused health problems, but the rich kept doing it because theyre egoistical maniacs.

            We don’t have monarchs and royalty anymore, we can do away with inbreeding completely. The fact some conservatives still defend it is ridiculous.

      • gregorum
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        61 year ago

        Except it’s actually illegal and all of those places, and has been for a long time.

  • @snooggums@midwest.social
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    “Is there a public health issue with a male marrying a male first cousin? Obviously, I think the answer is no,” Bulso said, adding the enhanced risk for birth defects would also not be present for women who marry their first cousin. “A female and a female cannot conceive a child.”

    Guy has a valid point about the justification given for the bill, not to mention that not every couple that gets married will be having biological children between them. Not just limited to gay couples, infertile people and people who choose not to have kids get married too.

    I’m good with socially discouraging cousins who grew up together getting married, but legal restrictions based on flawed logic is not a good idea.

    • @ImpishCook@lemmy.world
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      What about extended family members that you’ve never met in your entire life? Obviously procreation is still insanely gross here and we should outlaw it, but like you said not all relations between a heterosexual couple lead to children.

    • @uid0gid0@lemmy.world
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      If your family doesn’t have a history of consanguination then first cousins marrying every few generations is no big deal, genetically. You share about 5% of your genes with any random first cousin, compared to 2.5% with any random stranger. You should still seek generic counseling, you never know what secrets you might find

  • @Otkaz@lemmy.world
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    Republicans sure do seem to think you have the right to marry who ever you love when it comes to incest and pedophilia but not LGBTQ.

  • Noxy
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    441 year ago

    if both are consenting adults it shouldn’t be illegal. maybe there’s benefit to genetic counseling if there’s intent or possibility to have children, but it shouldn’t be illegal with or without that.

    • @KaiReeve@lemmy.world
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      There are 8 billion people on this planet now. Surely you can find someone other than your cousin.

      It really shouldn’t need to be illegal, but I guess residents of the volunteer state require a little more incentive to find dates before the holidays, rather than during them.

      • Noxy
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        121 year ago

        wasn’t talking about myself, which shouldn’t need to be pointed out, but here we are.

      • This is fine🔥🐶☕🔥
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        There are 8 billion people on this planet now. Surely you can find someone

        Not really.

        Speaking from a virgin, and not a cousinfucker, perspective.

        ‘There’s someone for everyone’ is such a fucking bullshit platitude.

        • cum
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          21 year ago

          It’s absolutely true though

            • Jojo, Lady of the West
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              The just world fallacy is about people getting what they deserve.

              That doesn’t seem to really apply to the statistical argument that there are enough people out there, the chance for any given individual to not have any shot is effectively (if perhaps not precisely) zero. Small enough to not be worth considering.

            • cum
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              31 year ago

              I don’t see how that fallacy is relevant here though

      • @Cryophilia@lemmy.world
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        There are 8 billion people on this planet now. Surely you can find someone who isn’t black

        Same line of reasoning, just 50 years ago.

        We shouldn’t ban consenting adult relationships solely because they are icky.

            • @jpreston2005@lemmy.world
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              No, I want you to explain your reasoning, you’re the one who made it. please explain how marrying a black person is just like marrying your first cousin.

              • @Cryophilia@lemmy.world
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                There’s nothing objectively wrong with either one. Both have been banned because they gross people out for purely social (bigoted) reasons.

                • @jpreston2005@lemmy.world
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                  Incorrect. One results in higher than normal birth defects that exacerbate over time, and one is perfectly healthy. We, as a society, should try to limit birth defects, no? Are you also in favor of bringing back thalidomide?

    • @Wrench@lemmy.world
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      Genetically, first cousins are fine. It does slightly increase some risks, I think doubles at most for some very low likelihood cases. I don’t know that it’s any more irresponsible than reproducing with someone that has a family history of genetically passed diseases.

      Humans were tribal until very recently, and reproducing with non-immediate relatives was normal. If it were that detrimental, we would not have survived as a species.

      And no, my wife is not remotely related to me.

  • @catloaf@lemm.ee
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    381 year ago

    Honestly, it’s not that big a deal unless it happens for multiple generations. There is enough genetic difference between first cousins for it to not count as inbreeding.

    I would recommend against it if there is a significant risk of genetic diseases being passed down, but that’s true even for any two random people.

    • @athairmor@lemmy.world
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      Honestly, if it’s consensual I don’t care just let women have control of their own bodies and keep their damn religion out of government. They can have cousin-fucking just leave minorities and LGBTQ+ alone.

  • @ZeroCool@slrpnk.net
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    The bill as amended by Rep. Gino Bulso, R-Brentwood, would prohibit first-cousin marriage unless the parties to the marriage contract received counseling from a genetic counselor licensed by the board of medical examiners. Bulso argued during a House floor session on Thursday the bill – as written – could violate the Obergefell v. Hodges U.S. Supreme Court decision, which made same-sex marriage legal across the country.

    Bulso, while explaining his reasoning, said the bill was introduced as a public health-related matter, adding the law needed to be passed to prevent cousins from getting married and conceiving a child that could have an increased risk for birth defects. Bulso argued two men who are first cousins could get married without the risk of conceiving a child with birth defects.

    This is just another bigoted conservative with an agenda. He’s using this no-brainer anti-cousin-fucking law to push anti-LGBTQ rhetoric. Gino Bulso was a lawyer for just shy of 40 years before joining the Tennessee House of Reps in 2022. He knows this isn’t a reasonable argument and he doesn’t care. He’s just trying to attack Obergefell v. Hodges. He’s basically saying “See what *the gays* are making me vote against?! I don’t want to allow cousin-fucking but Obergefell v. Hodges says we have to! Trust me, I’m a lawyer!

    Edit: JFC nothing brings out the weirdos as quickly as an article about a ban on cousin-fucking.

  • @cbarrick@lemmy.world
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    311 year ago

    I know everyone is like “haha cousin fuckers.”

    But really, do we want the government to pass laws restricting who we can and cannot marry?

    I can’t help but notice the overlap with LGBT rights. I’m pretty sure I’d prefer them to not pass this law.

    Like, from a legal and philosophical perspective, why is it OK for the government to restrict this? Why wouldn’t that same argument apply to gay men getting married?

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        151 year ago

        This isn’t about “acceptance” in the social sense. I’m not saying you have to accept cousin fuckers in your community.

        I’m more worried about the legal framework. If it is legal to outlaw this, why is it illegal to outlaw gay marriage? Like, that doesn’t seem ideologically consistent.

        • Well, we also can’t let communities discriminate like that…you say you’re “not saying you have to accept [them] in your community regardless of legal status” but I’m assuming you don’t feel loke people should be able to chase other types of minorities out of town if they don’t approve. That’s kinda the whole point of law - to set the rules for how we treat each other. I haven’t thought enough about this particular topic to know how I feel about it. I see the state’s interest in reducing incestuous births, and I’m definitely not ok with the state making reproductive choices for people more generally.

          What’s really disgusting is that I bet the entire reason they’re even debating this is because they don’t want to allow any exemption from their abortion ban.

          • @cbarrick@lemmy.world
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            81 year ago

            I’m intentionally trying to separate the social discrimination problem from the legal problem, and to not make a comment about the former.

            I guess I get that the state has an interest in preventing incestuous birth, but marriage is orthogonal sex.

    • @sepulcher@lemmy.ca
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      I’ve noticed people on both sides are cool with laws that hurt others.

      Ex: We see plenty of pot smokers supporting banning nicotine products.

      Liberals aren’t immune to this just like conservatives. Most people are shit :(

      • @jpreston2005@lemmy.world
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        nah dude. one thing hurts you and has severe impacts on your health. Inbreeding and lung cancer don’t have “both sides” of an argument. they’re bad.

  • @randon31415@lemmy.world
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    I feel like this is just an extension of the “my child, my property” mindset that republicans have. Sure, like others have argued, there might be cases of 25 year-olds genuinely falling in love with first cousins and the whole goverment-shouldn’t-regulate-love thing; but the vast majority of these cases are going to be home-schooled together groomed kids who parents fear having romantic relations outside the family might introduce them to non-conservative or non-religious viewpoints which might break their narcissistic control over their kids lives.

    • Liz
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      Apparently this taboo got started as thing by the Catholic Church during the medieval ages as some kind of property inheritance thing. I can’t remember the details. I remember watching a whole video that argued this anti-cousin marriage thing is where the West got it hyper individualism from, compared to the rest of the world, but I can’t find it now.

  • @dylanmorgan@slrpnk.net
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    As a Texan I’m not sure if I should thank Tennessee for making us seem a little less horrible or curse them for taking attention away from our bat-shittery.