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Cake day: October 22nd, 2023

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  • Sorry to be confusing; I have decided on a full vaginoplasty but have not yet had the surgery.

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    I am going for a peritoneal flap vaginoplasty. As far as I know, the only type of VP that can reliably self lubricate would be where they take tissue from the inside of your mouth, though that has the obvious drawback of limited material to work with. Among other things, what I like most about the peritoneal flap is that loss of depth is less of a concern. (Though dilation is still required)


  • These are all really good thoughts, and I encourage you to take all the time you need to process your decision. Sexual topics ahead:

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    I found that on the less frequent occasions now where I do masturbate, there is both less dysphoria and more pleasure from stimulating the glans and surrounding area as though it was my clitoris. I had already wanted a vaginoplasty, but this solidified my decision. Though I will add I personally don’t enjoy topping because of dysphoria, and also have too much sensitivity now for it to be enjoyable.


  • I was considering just doing an orchiectomy for a long time before settling on a full vaginoplasty. It’s perfectly valid to do just the orchi, or nothing at all.

    Erections will become more difficult, if that is important to you. Medications can help.

    Dating wise I can’t speak to super well, but I haven’t personally met anyone who was into balls really. It might be a topic of conversation, but there’s probably people who wouldn’t even notice they are gone.