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No Stupid Questions@lemmy.world • 1 month ago

why do people say annoying/rude stuff and then tell you “it was a joke!”

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why do people say annoying/rude stuff and then tell you “it was a joke!”

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No Stupid Questions@lemmy.world • 1 month ago

like being told to “move my fat ass” or just plain annoying and then telling me they were joking.

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“It’s just a joke” is perfectly valid, dammit. Once. After that, do not repeat it - you already know the person you aim it at doesn’t enjoy it.
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  Nope.
  
  It’s down to you to either read the room correctly or apologise for getting it wrong. You just don’t get judged too harshly for the first offence.

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