even better: opt-in, over opt-out

none of these fuckers want to go for that, because it’d make their darling shitpile look oh so bad

but it’s also a stark thing: ~20y ago tech actually asked first, and (mostly) fucked off if you told it to

the way a lot of tech companies approach consent (and how users have been primed following that) right now is some mad toxic fucked up bullshit