Alright, I’m fucking done, this is too much 😭

  • Titanna@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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    5 days ago

    I know it’s private, no need to answer, but how many times have You failed NNN this year already? With that excessive posting today…

    Also, surely, it is much af… did anyone said it is >too< much?

    • ShadowOfMiisha (she/her)@lemmy.blahaj.zoneOP
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      5 days ago
      NSFW, TMI

      Failed NNN? Depends on what you mean. Also depends on if you mean this November only or this whole year.

      Failed NNN (November) as in, how many orgasms I had? Zero, lol.
      Failed NNN (November) as in, how many times I’ve had sex? Many times.

      Failed NNN (year) as in, how many orgasms I’ve had? Only a handful, but they were amazing.
      Failed NNN (year) as in, how many times I’ve had sex? MANY, MANY, MANY TIMES.

      I have a hard time achieving orgasm with a partner. There are many reasons, but I just can’t, so I don’t try to and instead I focus on enjoying myself. Not reaching orgasm does not mean I don’t enjoy sex, it’s the opposite. I love sex and this is nowhere near a dealbreaker for me. I just have to do it myself once in a while to finish and I don’t mind that. This works for me!

      • Titanna@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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        5 days ago

        I’m memeing only coz You did lot of 196 drops yesterday. I’m bit scared to browse it today. But still had lots of smile on there coz of You, thx!

        For failing this year NNN that barely started, but still, no judging, just memeing. Stay true to self, girlieeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee

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        NSFW, if you don't mind me asking

        Failed NNN (November) as in, how many orgasms I had? Zero, lol.
        Failed NNN (November) as in, how many times I’ve had sex? Many times.

        Are you separating self-masturbation orgasms from sex-induced orgasms, or are you not orgasming sex?

        • ShadowOfMiisha (she/her)@lemmy.blahaj.zoneOP
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          3 days ago

          Wait why tf did I get a notification now for a comment made two days ago? HUH?

          Anway…

          NSFW, TMI

          I don’t separate those. I used to be able to finish solo, during sex it’s literally impossible for me. But now, I can’t even do that ;-;

          So I’m stuck with a building urge and my brain is all “MEN, MEN, MEN” but there’s nothing I can do and it’s just…AAAAH. Frustrating 😭

          Hope that answers your question…

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            23 hours ago

            Ahh that does answer my question! Thanks for being willing to share that as well 😊

            And yeah, it looked like either my network, or the instance I’m on, or the recent Lemmy update caused a sync issue, because I also didn’t get notifications for a few days

  • morto@piefed.social
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    5 days ago

    “Bonus” if she’s all affectionate and wanting your company when you’re occupied with work, but is distant when you have free time