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minus-squareadhocfungus@midwest.sociallinkfedilinkEnglisharrow-up35·3 months agoSure, I watched her try to kill my dad, and I feared she would kill me during the beatings, but I wouldn’t call it “abuse”. That’s only slightly sarcastic; my brain tells me the same thing yours does.
minus-squarekittenzrulz123@lemmy.blahaj.zoneMlinkfedilinkEnglisharrow-up8·3 months agoFor me it was just that my mothet was completely emotionally absent and my father was physically not absent. That and being constantly told I have no future by just about everyone.
minus-squarei_dont_want_to@lemmy.blahaj.zonelinkfedilinkEnglisharrow-up8·3 months agoSo… neglect. While not abuse, still an impactful form of maltreatment.
minus-squareDoc_Crankenstein@slrpnk.netlinkfedilinkEnglisharrow-up11·3 months agoI know this is entirely semantics, but neglect is a form of abuse.
minus-squarekittenzrulz123@lemmy.blahaj.zoneMlinkfedilinkEnglisharrow-up3·3 months agoIf someone had roughly similar experiences I would respect them if they called it abuse, thats just not how I define it for myself.
minus-squarePyroNeurosis@lemmy.blahaj.zonelinkfedilinkEnglisharrow-up3·3 months agoNuts to that! You have a future that I’m very keen on hearing about!
minus-squarekittenzrulz123@lemmy.blahaj.zoneMlinkfedilinkEnglisharrow-up3·3 months agoWell they were partially correct, I do have a future they just arent a part of it :3
Sure, I watched her try to kill my dad, and I feared she would kill me during the beatings, but I wouldn’t call it “abuse”.
That’s only slightly sarcastic; my brain tells me the same thing yours does.
For me it was just that my mothet was completely emotionally absent and my father was physically not absent. That and being constantly told I have no future by just about everyone.
So… neglect. While not abuse, still an impactful form of maltreatment.
I know this is entirely semantics, but neglect is a form of abuse.
If someone had roughly similar experiences I would respect them if they called it abuse, thats just not how I define it for myself.
Nuts to that! You have a future that I’m very keen on hearing about!
Well they were partially correct, I do have a future they just arent a part of it :3
Are you my long lost twin?
Mayhaps :3