• BussyCat@lemmy.world
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      2 months ago

      Like the guy defenitely comes off as a dick but also if you check out conventional social media you will see guys who talk about being expected to pay for not just the girl but also their friend, and you will see girls talk about how if she brings a friend for protection then the guy should pay for the friend too.

      So many variables exist that we don’t know but for some people there an expectation that if a girl brings a friend the guy needs to pay for both and I wouldn’t default that to just misogyny

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      2 months ago

      Yes he was being a bit rude but it is surprisingly common for women to expect the men to pay for their friends and it is not at all unreasonable for him to put his foot down early and refuse before she even asks.

      Being a little rude to a woman is not misogyny.

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          It’s cool that you haven’t been online dating lately and all but your ignorance of trends is not my problem.

          Yes that situation would make you racist, but that’s also not even remotely comparable in any way so it’s pointless to bring up. Go touch grass.

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      She NEVER said that she didn’t expect him to pay, she just ignored it, and kept justifying why it was okay to bring her friend. She fully expected him to pay for dinner and drinks for both.

      These girls are predators, and they tried to treat him like a chump, and people are pissed because he showed some self-respect.