Excepting reciprocal interest in you

  • andrewta@lemmy.world
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    2 months ago

    That’s basically what it means. I get my monthly bills paid and have enough left over to put into a retirement fund, with a little more for a trip every 2 or 3 years.

    If she is making less then that then which of those three do I give up? Retirement? Life (doing something other than working)? Monthly bills?

    • s@piefed.worldOP
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      2 months ago

      A shared life is probably cheaper than two separate lives. Two people paying for one home tends to be cheaper per person than one person paying for one home. If you both are going to an event, then you only pay for the gas that goes into one car instead of two cars. Insurances and taxation might vary from place to place as to if they are cheaper per person as a couple.

      She might also have a different lifestyle that is overall less expensive (ex. more frequently cooking at home instead of eating out, shopping at cheaper stores).

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        2 months ago

        So please explain to me why it is bad for me to say that I do not want to lose one of those three?