• InternetCitizen2@lemmy.world
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    7 months ago

    Bros if your talking to a girl and want to talk more some day its better to give her your number. It puts the ball on her court if she’s interested and isn’t imposing if she’s not. More often then not you’ll get a text by the next day if it went as well as you think.

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      7 months ago

      You realise the exact same advice could be applied in reverse, right? If the relationship’s gonna work, both people need to be interested in continuing it.

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          7 months ago

          what implies that it wouldn’t?

          If the advice is “don’t do this, let them do it”, and the advice can go both ways, it kinda doesn’t work as advice.

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            7 months ago

            Im confused about your confusion. It does work both ways. The issue, per the meme, is that someone may not have wanted to engage further and not state that they do not want to. By giving them your contact info they can think about it and then decide that it is in fact mutual and not feel pressured by the moment, so it still works as advice in that social situation.

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            7 months ago

            “if you are interested in taking to someone more, offer then your number instead of asking for theirs.”

            I don’t see the problem here?

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        7 months ago

        Only if you equate men and women because of oversimplification or desire, idk. This is not learned behaviour but innate tendencies.