This question popped up in my mind. Also, my boyfriend’s last relationship was with a girl who did this.

  • CallateCoyote@lemmy.world
    16·
    1 month ago

    I wouldn’t say “pretended.” More like tried to convince myself I could because I knew logically they would be good for me… but when the spark isn’t there, the spark isn’t there. So when the first thing you want to do after sex with them is go home and take a shower you know the spark isn’t there.

  • NKBTN@feddit.ukEnglish
    4·
    1 month ago

    Yes, because for some reason I tend to be mostly attracted to lesbians. Their dress sense and personality is better than straight women IMO; I get on really well with lesbians, often better than with my male friends overall.

    So yeah… pretty much all the women who fancy me, I don’t fancy much back, but I feel I ought to reciprocate physically just so I can have a physical relationship from time to time.