several months ago I wrote about leaving floor nursing for moving patients in beds. I also posted it would mean a 20% financial hit.

Turns out the financial hit is 2%. I took the job.

Several of my former colleagues, after seeing me now that I switched jobs cannot hide their disbelief and shock. Some of the things I’ve heard: “what a waste, you can do more.” “You are a RN and you choose to move beds?”, “Haven’t you worked with us?”, “Oh no, don’t tell me you’re moving beds now.” and more.

I’ve always been very individualistic and never cared much about what others think about me. This new job means less stress and I can sleep better.

But it’s not only other RNs who tell me this: doctors as well, very knowledgeable ones.

Am I doing something wrong, when so many people, some of them much smarter than me tell me what I’m doing is stupid?

Going back to my old job doesn’t mean going back to my old department, just back to floor nursing.

  • eli04@linux.communityOPEnglish
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    2 days ago

    it’s quite clear to me that me prioritizing my personal life over work made them insecure about themselves. Not listening to their forced, unasked and unwanted advice made them insecure about themselves. Working in a way that made sense to myself made them insecure about themselves.

    When someone defies another person’s personal truth or reality, that has the potential to cause the other person to feel insecure about themselves.

    With those people, I end up giving them short and vague responses until they leave me alone. They don’t deserve anything more.

    holy shit, leaving was the correct decision. I always felt I didn’t fit in because they expected me to be one of them, always subordinate to them, a useful idiot who would only work as they wanted.

    I’m also glad I left. godspeed!