• @elmtonic@lemmy.world
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    1811 months ago

    My optimistic read is that maybe OP will use their newfound revelations to separate themselves from LW, rejoin the real world, and become a better person over time.

    My pessimistic read is that this is how communities like TPOT (and maybe even e/acc?) grow - people who are disillusioned with the (ostensible) goals of the broader rat community but can’t shake the problematic core beliefs.

    The cosmos doesn’t care what values you have. Which totally frees you from the weight of “moral imperatives” and social pressures to do the right thing.

    Choose values that sound exciting because life’s short, time’s short, and none of it matters in the end anyway… For me, it’s curiosity and understanding of the universe. It directs my life not because I think it sounds pretty or prosocial, but because it’s tasty.

    Also lmfao at the first sentence of one of the comments:

    I don’t mean to be harsh, but if everyone in this community followed your advice, then the world would likely end.

    • David GerardOPMA
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      1611 months ago

      maybe, but I got to “moral cuckoldry” and realised their goal was to choose being worse

      • @thesmokingman@programming.dev
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        1311 months ago

        Whenever I see someone saying they are freed “from the weight of “moral imperatives” and social pressures to do the right thing” my immediate assumption is that they’re about to suggest something genuinely reprehensible or, best case scenario, advocate for crabs in a bucket positions.

        • David GerardOPMA
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          1311 months ago

          EA: if a neoreactionary looked up “charity” in a dictionary, often literally

    • @locallynonlinear
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      711 months ago

      The cosmos doesn’t care what values you have. Which totally frees you from moral imperatives and social pressures. Also, I’m doing this particular set of values which is better.

      The limit of the cosmos not caring about what values you have, is the cosmos not caring if people choose to have value in their life.

    • @jonhendry
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      311 months ago

      It directs my life not because I think it sounds pretty or prosocial, but because it’s tasty.

      Who wrote this, Hannibal Lecter?

  • @swlabr
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    11 months ago

    I hate this phrase but this is “saying the quiet part out loud” in action.

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      I couldn’t finish reading this, when I read this out loud: “I don’t want to be cuckolded by someone else’s pretty network-TV values.” all the nearby dogs started barking.

      E: seems a bit like a younger person who is now going through some trauma about how much influence they really have vs how much they imagined they had when they were 12 and now they are at risk of replacing that with nihilism tinted with far right dog-whistles (and as they keep searching for new values, and the nihilism turns out to also provide none they will just turn far right (if they aren’t there already looking at the ‘globohomo’ blog (the blog is also fucking weird, look at the other things posted, it is just a massive list of blog posts all at the same day/days and a quick check (about 5 articles) shows the globohomo post is the only one with any upvotes) post they linked at). I think one of the more annoying problems of LW is that you simply cannot talk about this, you cannot go ‘“globohomo”, “cuck” wtf you really need to read some other things than trash, you are poisoning your own brain’.

      • @swlabr
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        1011 months ago

        RE: your original comment. Reminded me of this LW post from half a year ago (discussed here)

        RE: the followup edit. God, that is sad, and par for the course. Removed from context, I resonate with the youthful hopefulness of thinking you’ll change the world, followed by the slightly less youthful hopelessness that changing the world in any meaningful way is much harder than what was quoted. Staying in the orbit of LW, NRx and other right/far right corners of the blagosphere is definitely not setting oneself up for success.

        Also yes in their attempts to moderate and elevate their level of discourse, they’ve hamstrung themselves in many ways, least of all in being able to tell this dude to stop and get some help. It’s like 10% of why they seem so humorless, self-serious, and unable to change (the last 90% is because they are humorless, self-serious, and unable to change)

      • @locallynonlinear
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        711 months ago

        seems a bit like a younger person who is now going through some trauma about how much influence they really have vs how much they imagined they had when they were 12

        This really resonates. Unfortunately I think that’s right. Having this epiphany, this existential correction, about ones self, has either the possibility to create true life long wisdom or, irrecoverable life long self loathing, and from my experience it comes down to the quality of this person’s relationships to lean on when confronting the internal fear of mortality.

        So it’s sad to see but this is another example of the latter and not the former.

    • @mountainriver
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      1011 months ago

      It looks like they combine the hubris of an anarchist or a communist group that talks about being the vanguard of the proletariat while being like five people (and Steve only comes for the snacks, and Mike is probably a fed) with the methods of an upper class philanthropy association that has gala dinners and discuss the problems of poverty (Upper class twit voice: is it that the poor are stupid, of bad stock or just lazy? Maybe all three!)

      Somehow it’s not beneficial to their mental health, or anything else really.

      • -dsr-
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        911 months ago

        Mike is a fed, yes.

        So is Steve. The snack thing is left over from his previous undercover assignment at NORML. That didn’t end well, but he’s pretty sure he can get Mike to agree to buy explosives, which will be a good bust.

      • @selfMA
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        911 months ago

        Mike would like to yet again propose that the community garden effort be reformed into an illegal revolutionary militia, and insists that all affirmative votes be projected loudly and clearly into their shirt

      • @Soyweiser
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        711 months ago

        Your snacking privileges have been revoked for this reactionary claptrap! We might even vote to expel you from the meeting! (After we vote on how to vote on the voting).

    • @Evinceo
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      811 months ago

      Nobody in the LW discussion seems to understand the many points between “saving the world” & “do as thou wilt is the whole of the law“.

      Black and white thinking is a classic hallmark of… something.

  • @carlitoscohones
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    1011 months ago

    Saving the world sucks unless you do it while traveling the world in luxury as an EA “charity worker” maybe.

  • @Amoeba_Girl
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    811 months ago

    Wow, moral relativism, how daring!

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      If some guy promised to send you to secular heaven if you just let him fuck your wife, you’d tell him to hit the road.

      I would?? I don’t even know what this is supposed to mean so maybe I’ll ask my wife!!

  • @carlitoscohones
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    811 months ago

    I made it to the second sentence and had to google “hedonium,” which I figured was a portmanteau-type thing and indeed it was. In my search results for the word, I see LessWrong and Nick Bostrum at the top, so yeah.

    • @Soyweiser
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      811 months ago

      It is all the same stuff ‘what if the AGI transforms all the matter in the universe into computronium in which we can live forever as digital beings’ but now with Hedonium. It is all the same LW-pattern.

        • David GerardOPMA
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          711 months ago

          hopium is on its way to being bitcoin jargon, so

        • @Soyweiser
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          611 months ago

          Well …euh… that… euh fuck.

          I guess!