• stumu415@lemmy.zipOP
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    I wish this exposed tipping culture for what it is, but America is so deep in capitalism that you’ll hear more complaints against this.

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      It’s so fucking stupid

      Just raise the prices by 20% and also pay the staff 20% more.

      But fuck workers’ rights and living wages, right?

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        They wouldn’t need to raise prices that much.

        During the Obamacare debate the Papa John’s CEO was upset that he would have to raise pizza prices a few cents to pay for the health insurance his workers need. Wealthy people are psychopaths.

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        Tipping is fucking stupid but it is the current system for how US waiters earn a living. So to fuck them over and not tip does nothing to change the system and only leaves them overworked with no money.

        Think materially and tip your servers. Believe me they would like it to change too. It isn’t them that keeps the system in place. Big business has the money to lobby against our human and material needs.

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          Servers don’t want the system to change as they make more money with tips than they would from a “livable wage”

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            Former euro server here. Got a livable wage plus tips. Not the mandated kind, just the extras people would leave. That would net me 5 euros per hour above my livable wage.

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              Yeah definitely not arguing against earning a livable wage via being paid that livable wage by the employer. That should be the system. But sadly that isn’t the system and not paying a tip in the states isn’t going to do anything to change the system.

              For example, the unhoused crisis is caused by the same ultra rich classes that keep tipping around. But I’m not going to pretend that the unhoused aren’t people with real immediate needs. I will give them money when I can. I will vote and push for change as well. Material concerns of the moment are more important to me than strict idealism.

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                Yeah I’m absolutely on board and quite in favor of what you argue. The institutionalized out sourcing of wages is absurd.

                I can’t be against tipping as a concept, as I live in a place where it works, but the us system irks me.

                But we can and should be more social. Helping oneself instead of borrowing the selfishness of the upper class.

          • apfelwoiSchoppen@lemmy.world
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            Y’all living privileged idealogue navel-gazed lives can do what you want I guess. We here in the working class are tired, overworked, and are trying to survive the day.

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              You’re more frustrated at people that don’t leave tips over the fact you are seen as less than a person by the owners that pay a pitiful wage. Look to the people that came before you, look up Mario Savio.

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            This is generally false. Most waiters would see more consistent income with fewer instances of subjective nonsense like ideologues who don’t believe they have to follow the basic cultural rules of the place in which they visit. There is an exceptional subset of waiters that would make less for sure but they are in a minority.

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              I put livable wage in quotation marks because it wouldn’t actually be a livable wage. The pay would likely be 1-2x minimum wage which is still not livable in most places

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                People most definitely want to be paid by their employer rather than tips. This isn’t a bottom up movement keeping tipping in place. It is ultra rich people invested in the restaurant industry that keep it around. The same people that use the National Restaurant Association to effectively lobby against minimum wage hikes to meet that “livable wage” and pro-unionization regulation.

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              The presence of a livable wage doesn’t affect any of those though?

              The employer still pays FICA on tipped revenue, and paying for insurance has nothing to do with their wage

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          Nope. It’s not my obligation to pay their wages directly. They can accept no tip, they can lobby for a living wage from their employer, or they can find a different job. I am okay with all of the above.

          The only way change happens is through action, not just crying about it. If you want change, stop tipping.

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            ah yes, put the onus on the people just trying to survive while still patronizing the restaurant that the owner continues to make profits on.

            If you feel this strongly, you should boycott all restaurants that make their servers rely on tips.

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          If we all participated in a “tip strike” and stopped leaving tips, the front of the house staff that relies on it would quit. Eventually the restaurant owners would have to do something about it.

          Unfortunately, it seems like the owners would rather add a gratuity fee than rise prices on the menu and pay a decent wage.

          One can hope though that eventually, tipping would go away. Sorry bar tenders and servers. Some of you may struggle but it’s a sacrifice I’m willing to make meme