• spaghettiwestern@sh.itjust.worksEnglish
    58·
    17 天前

    Was in a Trader Joe’s and this woman was practically shouting into her phone. Even worse, she had it on speaker and the woman on the other end was shouting back. Bad enough in the same isle, but then she walked up right next to me and they continued shouting into my ear. Well, if you’re going to be that rude…

    I looked at her and began hacking as loud as could which is really loud. When I paused the shouting resumed so I started hacking again. The look on her face when she shouted, “Ewwww!” and backed away was priceless.

    Perhaps not one of my finest moments, but one I will always treasure anyway.

  • stermy4u@lemmy.worldOPEnglish
    47·
    17 天前

    my rule is if strangers can figure out your job title from your coffee shop call, you’re doing too much

  • Scrubbles@poptalk.scrubbles.techEnglish
    25·
    17 天前

    Sorry, couple of times it’s just been unavoidable. I do avoid it as much as possible, but I have a bus transfer that sometimes takes 45 minutes and there’s a coffee shop. The last one my boss’ boss wanted a sudden meeting, and well, it happened.

  • adam_y@lemmy.worldEnglish
    24·
    16 天前

    Once sat in a coffee shop and some professional therapist had a client meeting at the table next to me.

    Full snot crying client. Really personal stuff.

    I could understand if it was about agoraphobia or some sort of supported social interaction, but nope, it was a therapist who decided to use a public space as their office and inflict emotional distress on random people trying to drink a warm drink.

  • Dr. Bob@lemmy.caEnglish
    23·
    17 天前

    Sorry my dude. Sometimes there ain’t no option. If internet cafes were still a thing I’d do them there.

    • Nindelofocho@lemmy.worldEnglish
      6·
      17 天前

      Coworking spaces exist and a lot of libraries have study/conference rooms you can use for cheap if not free

      • potustheplant@feddit.nlEnglish
        4·
        16 天前

        You’re assuming (incorrectly) that people that do these things live there or that every country has libraries with those spaces. News flash, they don’t. If you’re travelling and working and your hotel/whatever has shitty internet or no desk, sometimes you just don’t have a choice. After all, it’s literally just a person talking. Is it really that annoying just because the person they’re talking to isn’t physically there? Maybe it’s you who is being annyoing for complaining about this.

        • Nindelofocho@lemmy.worldEnglish
          3·
          16 天前

          Brother are you ok? I genuinely mean that and not in the smart ass way. Shit going on has gotten me salty a good bit too at times and we have to try to keep ourselves from being just adding to the hatred. I havent made any complaints I just mentioned things that do exist that might help in at least some situations because a lot of people are saying theres no option in the comments.

          Anecdotally, I moved from the US to a less developed country and these sorta spaces are everywhere some of the coffee shops have even adapted to having better noise control and more private seating which I think is a great answer for this situation.

          • potustheplant@feddit.nlEnglish
            2·
            16 天前

            I’m perfectly fine. It’s just kinda annoying when people assume that the guy taking a zoom call in a coffee shop does so becuse he chooses to. A lot of times the people doing that didn’t have a choice. And, after all, it’s just a person talking to another person. If they’re being loud, just tell them.

            • Nindelofocho@lemmy.worldEnglish
              1·
              16 天前

              I think its definitely valid to be annoyed. I do think a lot of people assume (me included, im not faultless lol) that people dont even consider the other options when they are there they just go to the first place in mind.

              • potustheplant@feddit.nlEnglish
                2·
                16 天前

                I don’t. I hate working in coffee shops, but I’ve been forced to do so several times for different reasons. Maybe put your best foot forward next time and consider that the other person didn’t have a choice. Funny how you asked me if I was ok, but you’re the one scoffing at strangers for no good reason.

      • Dr. Bob@lemmy.caEnglish
        3·
        17 天前

        They do, and neither work in most cases.

        I have used libraries before and they are great for this when they are close by. I’ve never used a co-working space - do they have drop in desks where I can just slip in to one in a strange city and give them $10 to sit for 30 minutes?

        My need typically comes when I’m travelling and something comes up. Coffee shops are quick and convenient and they have always been used for this kind of thing. Right back to their historical origin as trading houses.

        • Nindelofocho@lemmy.worldEnglish
          2·
          17 天前

          Fair enough about the libraries. Coworking spaces though yes at least where im from. There was a place in my medium/small town right off main street that used to be a pharmacy. It had a lil cafe inside and was pretty cheap.

          • GeneralDingus@lemmy.cafeEnglish
            2·
            16 天前

            I’ve looking into coworkinf spaces and even a single space on a shared table costs an arm and a leg. Much more expensive than a simple cafe. Ive worked in a library before and I quite enjoy them.

            I can’t imagine working at either place if I have a meeting though. That could be a serious breach of information.

          • Dr. Bob@lemmy.caEnglish
            2·
            16 天前

            The ones I’ve always seen seem to be targeted to remote workers and solo practitioners - people who need some support space on a regular basis so there are service tiers and payment plans. I just need someplace to sit when the bat phone goes off. And yes I use headphones.

  • scarabic@lemmy.worldEnglish
    20·
    16 天前

    I don’t care what kind of call it is, frankly. I don’t want to hear you talk in your phone, or hear your phone make any sound whatsoever. Sitting there watching videos with the speaker on, at a restaurant? Damn.

  • Rivermoonwolf@lemmy.worldEnglish
    19·
    17 天前

    Zoom callers are the SECOND worst invasive species at the local coffee shop. Those annoying TikTok dance and sing while doing “normal” shit at ten X full volume? Those are the worst.

  • AnarchistArtificer@slrpnk.netEnglish
    15·
    16 天前

    I’m sorry :( I’m currently homeless, and thus my only access to WiFi is at public locations like coffee shops (and libraries, but my local library is well used and so quiet that I’d be even more of an asshole to do calls there).

    Though I am admittedly part of the problem, I confess that this has, if anything, made me more judgemental of people who engage in calls like this in an assholeish manner. For instance, I try my best to be as discreet as possible, as well as choosing places that are busy enough that my voice is more likely to blend into the background noise (I’m fortunate that my headphones are quite good at picking up my voice).

    • Hanrahan@slrpnk.netEnglish
      12·
      16 天前

      then you’re not the problem, you’re aware, try to minimize etc

      Assholes are everywhere but you aren’t one of them, based on this.

  • jaschen306@sh.itjust.worksEnglish
    10·
    17 天前

    I actively avoid using coffee shops to take calls, but sometimes it’s the only place with wifi and power. I do try my best to keep my conversation at a level that is equal to others at the coffee shop. It’s really unavoidable sometimes.

  • Lodespawn@aussie.zoneEnglish
    10·
    17 天前

    Who cares? Do you also find people who have in-person conversations in coffee shops insufferable? Or people who take phone calls?

  • Reygle@lemmy.worldEnglish
    8·
    17 天前

    People who do anything other than acquiring coffee in coffee shops are untrustworthy.

    • forestbeasts@pawb.socialEnglish
      1·
      11 天前

      Nah, coffee shops are also a great hangout space in general.

      We sometimes get a coffee, sit down with our laptop and chill for a couple hours, just to get out of the house. It’s pretty cheap and a nice change of pace compared to sitting at home.

      Not being loud or anything.

      – Frost

  • Iconoclast@feddit.ukEnglish
    8·
    17 天前

    Why? What difference does it make if they’re talking to someone face to face compared to it being via video call?

    • JackTea@piefed.worldEnglish
      7·
      17 天前

      A coworking space

      A library with a meeting room/quiet study room

      At your home

      At your company’s satellite branch if they have one

      In the shade under a tree at a park away from people

      –I just listed better options. You’re welcome.

      Sorry. I meant, your welcome

      • molten@lemmy.worldEnglish
        6·
        16 天前

        You’re kind of assuming a certain level of wealth and type of town here. You’re really telling me a ton about where you live and your economic situation and not really considering anything else. It might be a big solution where you are but when my tiny library WiFi isn’t good enough for zoom meetings I need an actual alternative I guess I could try skipping town to go to my nearest co working space. But I’ll respond go your “you’re welcome” with a cordial thanks for the attitude and a bunch of options that are not necessarily applicable. But I wouldn’t really expect less from an entitled “don’t take your job interview in my coffee space.” Type person. Sometimes it’s the best option for people trying to get by. Sometimes people live near the coffee shop and don’t have a car. Sometimes a million things and situations that make it the best option in this hellscape. I’m sure your personal situation is different and all those evil meeting takers at your favorite coffee shop could just cross the street and go to the free super fast and private co-working space but that’s considering your situation a whole lot more than you’re doing mine.

        • CarnivorousCouch@lemmy.worldEnglish
          4·
          16 天前

          Well yeah most of the time people are complaining online about things they see in their community spaces, they are referring to their own towns/settings

      • potustheplant@feddit.nlEnglish
        2·
        16 天前

        A coworking space

        A lot of them don’t have day/week passes.

        A library with a meeting room/quiet study room

        You’d be surprised by how many cities don’t have one of these.

        At your home

        What if I’m travelling?

        At your company’s satellite branch if they have one

        They don’t.

        In the shade under a tree at a park away from people

        No wifi + might be unsafe depending on the city.

        Thanks for nothing brub.

    • Smoogs@lemmy.worldEnglish
      2·
      17 天前

      -5 feet further away

      -not in my ear

      -not beside my stall on the bathroom.

      -with a headset

      not really unreasonable nor difficult options. world is your oyster.

  • kinther@lemmy.worldEnglish
    5·
    16 天前

    Did this once with a team meeting. There was a guy who showed up 3 minutes into my call and was playing the guitar. I muted myself but when they asked me a question I had to quickly unmute and answer, then mute. My coworker was like “where the fuck are you?”

    • angband@lemmy.worldEnglish
      4·
      16 天前

      Causality: he went and got his guitar put of the car because you were on a teams meeting in a public space intended for relaxation. He’s just trying to help you relax.