• sem@piefed.blahaj.zone
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    19 hours ago

    Ye, but if getting hit on by men wasn’t danger-coded or gross, it would be less of a deterrent. You don’t have to blame yourself.

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      15 hours ago

      If getting hit on by men is the only problem we’ve got to find you a supportive lesbian friend group or bar where you can try on pretty dresses (I think they’re called drag clubs)

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        12 hours ago

        Lesbians love me lol. Never really been interested in drag. I definitely respect it though. I’d be willing to go if a friend wanted to. I don’t have any pretty dresses to try on. I want a maid dress. That would be awesome.

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          10 hours ago

          The best tailor i ever had did primarily wedding dresses (on Lamar Street in Austin if they’re still around, I just am terrible with names) and I was recommended through a friend getting her dress done. I was actually her first male presenting client (unknowingly going for the twink look at the time) and she altered half my tops. Got them nice and snug.

          Which reminds me, I haven’t fit into my favorite shirt for years, but if I wear it like so… Gimme a minute my wife is going to be so happy she likes the shirt as much as I do

          Edit hot damn I’m wearing it to the jazz festival

          Now I just need a good occasion for the kilt that isn’t ethnically or sprotsbally oriented. Or lesbian game night because they’re too supportive. I’m trying to push myself a little, grow as a person.