Are you sure about this being true in Japanese? Open source culture over there might be different, and I don’t think many Western fonts include Japanese glyphs.

It’s likely, but I wouldn’t extrapolate from my Western experiences in this case.

How do I bake the best chocolate chip cookies?

Why do you care about people doing it in your area? :D

I was heavily bullied at school, so I understand. Have fun undoing the damage others caused you :D it’s an adventure.

Yep and I have less time for all these things when I spend the time setting up monitoring.

Fixing takes the same time either way. But I barely ever have to touch my setup anyway, because usually ot doesn’t just break randomly.

What do you need quick? I have a Minecraft server, a wiki for random stuff, a shopping list, a calendar sync, photo hosting, a media server and probably some other shit on there.

I can think of many situations where I’d want those quickly, but need I don’t anything.

Of course the mental health team is bleeding talent, it’s probably (initially) consisted of people that actually care about mental health, and they gradually figured out that no matter what they do or try, the technology they work for can only ever be a net negative on mental health. I would also wash my hands off it as fast as possible and go back to actually contributing to positive mental health.

Don’t do shit like “lemmy etiquette”. Just follow human etiquette and be a pleasant human and everything will be fine.

Also stop worrying so much about “doing anything bad”. Sometimes you fuck up, sometimes you upset people, it’s no big deal. You’re good.

Assuming the uptime of your services are in any way important.

I’m not running a business here, I’ve got no big stakeholders. If something doesn’t work, at most me or someone close to me is affected. No one really cares if something is not available for a day.

I spent 0 minutes on monitoring and don’t intend to start now :D

Das ist wichtig, weil du nicht mit rationalen Akteuren argumentierst, sondern mit Menschen. Deren emotionale Bedenken mit genauso emotionalem “Ja ich verstehe dich” zu beantworten ist einfach das, wie Menschen miteinander reden müssen.

Wichtig ist danach die Unterhaltung Richtung rational sinnvollem zu lenken, wie der, dem du geantwortet hast, es gezeigt hat.

There’s a difference between not tolerating and dehumanizing. You don’t need to dehumanize someone that you don’t tolerate the behavior of, and it’s also possible to dehumanize someone but tolerate their behavior.

They’re simply two different things. Slightly related maybe, but distinct.

I’m pretty sure they meant that. There are a lot of people who don’t see rich people as humans anymore. The irony is lost on them.

Firefox actually searches tabs first when you enter something into the adress bar and switches to the tab automatically when you press enter.

Two factors in my view:

1. You don’t remember the good dreams, because we humans generally focus more on the bad things. Dreams generally don’t get remembered very easily, so you only remember the very impactful ones, which would thus be the bad ones. It is possible though to want to focus more on the good stuff and train yourself to do it.
2. Afaik, you do have more bad dreams if your life is filled with anxiety or danger or whatever. Your dreams in some sense are a reflection of your waking life. So if your life is very stressful, maybe try to change that, and that might also change the dreams.

Would you say you’re a managed switch manager? Do you have any aspirations of eventually becoming a manager of other managed switch managers? And if so, how would you manage that?

On most Lemmy instances, pictures get deleted after a few weeks to save storage space. If you want your picture to last, you need to find an image hoster yourself that you trust to keep the image online, and then share the URL to that.

You already took the first, most important step. Now you just continue from here.

Feel yourself in the moment. Decide to do anything you want and go do it, even if it is stuff “from past you”. Then make a conscious effort to record/remember the way you feel while doing it.

Do you get the urge to continue doing it? To stop it? Do you like/dislike it? Use those feelings to guide your next decision, and then just repeat.

There is nothing bad about what your past wanted either. If you still want to go for those dreams, you certainly can. Those things may still be what your “current you” wants, even if it is influenced by your past.

Your “current you” consists of the past. Your “current you” is not separate from your past, your “current you” is only what it is now because of your past. With a different past you would have a different “current you”. Because of that, don’t see your past as something that doesn’t/shouldn’t exist, of course, in an optimal world, you wouldn’t have experienced those things, but you did experience them, and they will influence you in some way. The past influencing our present is just how humans work, if you had a nice childhood/whatever, you would also be influenced by those nice memories.

So deliberately trying to not do the things your past wanted doesn’t really make sense. But it also means that you don’t need to go for those past things either, which you’ve just figured out.

There is really no real reason to overcomplicate this. Just think about things you want to do right now, see how they feel right now, and then adjust your behavior accordingly.

I don’t. That’s why I don’t have a job right now.

Well that’s what I’m saying. I had Windows set up exactly like I like it. I disabled all telemetry, had custom hotkeys for everything, etc etc etc, everything worked exactly like I wanted.

There was just a little thing in the background that made it make sense to switch to Linux, Windows getting shittier, MS dropping support etc etc

In the end, of course it’s not exactly the same thing, but that’s what’s happening to x11 as well, it does get “shittier” (comparatively) as less development time is spent on it, it doesn’t get improved as much as Wayland, gets less support etc. So if you just use a scale of “good <> bad”, over time, x11 goes more towards bad and Wayland more towards good, same as Windows vs Linux.

Funny, this is basically the exact thing I said about switching from Windows to Linux at one point. Of course not about Wayland and window managers, but about the customization I did and the need to port it over.