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Cake day: July 29th, 2023

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  • Here you CAN reserve the covered picnic tables for parties, but they put up a sign that says “reserved” on the ones that are, and only the covered ones can be, there are still lots of benches and tables.

    So, like, if you were sitting at one someone did pay for they could ask you to move, but it wouldn’t involve the police.

    I love the park here that is run by the city, not the county. There are always men playing soccer, people having parties with music, and on Wed evening there is a group of high rolling Pokemon go players there for Raid day, go play with them and you cannot lose, it’s great. And when it floods in the summer it is gorgeous.

    Parks are “third spaces” for sure.


















  • Oh, so more like you are asking how actualized are your kinks? I think that is a good question. I spent a stupid long time waiting for my sexuality to evolve and turn into what I considered the ‘real’ adult woman sexuality, which involved getting off on taking charge. Like, even though my very earliest sexual fantasies were about being forced (not even sexually, necessarily) and never about anything except that power play stuff, I really truly thought I ought not want it, that it was some sort of unfinished or lazy thing. One day had a revelation that if any of my friends had some kink I’d be so accepting of them, never ever would I think they needed to change, so tried to give myself the same consideration, and am much more in alignment now. So in the scale of acceptance, maybe 8 or so. But I do not agree that everyone ‘vanilla’ is repressing hidden depths of perversity. I think many, probably most people really aren’t. Even those with a healthy sex drive. And no way does everyone have the same levels of general need, it took me 40 years to find a guy who runs as hot as me, get it every day now for about 15 years :)