

Yeah same, I make noise to be less “I’m being sneaky” because I’m not trying to be. It never occurred to me this could be taken as “I’m trying to start a conversation, while not being in your field of view at all and also not saying any words.” I don’t do this when walking with my wife.
I’m an American in that third group, theoretically quite comfortable, as a software developer with a six figure salary living in the Midwest.
I have no rebuttal. What you wrote is scarily accurate.