• @Architeuthis
    link
    English
    2510 months ago

    Had to google shit-test, apparently it’s a PUA term, what a surprise.

    • @swlabr
      link
      English
      2210 months ago

      For those that don’t want to look it up and are ok with a potentially incomplete version:

      Apparently it’s when someone (in PUA context, a woman) says, does, or demands something disingenuously to see how you react to it. My guess is that there are PUA doctrines about how to react and detect this sort of thing.

      As is a PUA framed thing, it’s probably a way for someone to dismiss any boundary setting behaviour as gaslighting, which is ofc fucked.

      • @Soyweiser
        link
        English
        14
        edit-2
        10 months ago

        This is how I understood it, when women ‘shit test’ a man it is to see if he is an alpha or not. It is an absolutely toxic mindset which will lead to weird dudes interpreting absolutely normal behavior (“hey Bob, it is your turn to do the dishes as agreed” “No Sarah! I will not do the dishes, you do it you <slurs>”) as shit tests. When men do the shit test it is to show how alpha and not constrained by social conventions they are. or something like that. To show the value of their genes to the women.

        But yeah, it is pretty bad that the LW-community has taken up these kinds of terms.

        (Edit: changed the wording a bit here, for some reason I started my first sentence different than I wanted to start it, my bad, I meant to explain how the concept is gendered (at least from how I got it, and yes pua stuff is very hetro), no idea why I messed up the start).

    • @gerikson
      link
      English
      1610 months ago

      Every day I learn something new and terrible, thanks internet.

      • David GerardOPMA
        link
        English
        910 months ago

        it’s what you’re here for!

        • @gerikson
          link
          English
          810 months ago

          Awful/Sneerclub - the original memetic hazard.

      • @Soyweiser
        link
        English
        11
        edit-2
        10 months ago

        LW always had a bit of a toxic PUA problem, if you are a bit familiar with hbomberguys youtube (and if you are not, you can just stop reading now and save yourself the time), you might have heard of his ‘what is it with you guys and skulls’ joke, starting from him mocking the weird Davis Aurini guy he actually had a LW account for a while. Sure he was not active for long, but he was active at the start, the rot goes quote deep in LW (seems a lot of the Aurini LW stuff has not been scrubbed), but they always had a weird fascination for PUA stuff, that is also why Scott wrote published the anti-heartiste faq (the who? just a neo-nazi pickup artist, well known enough in the LW community to need an anti-FAQ (and yes he stole his name from the bdsm book Story of O. Very clever, he read a book).

        Just like neo-reaction, pua stuff is an amazing rabbithole of toxicity to go down which has had quite the influence on our culture. Without heartiste (who if I understood everything correctly was the main intellectual (lol) driving force in that community after the game was released) there would be no Andrew Tate for example (and this also shows the neo-nazi and ephebophilic roots of the modern movement (There was a period most of them pointed back to heartiste as their thought leader, which is why the anti-faq was made, he was the steelman position to attack)).

        What makes this heartiste thing worse is the fact (looked it up) that him being a raging racist was already well knowin in 2013, and the FAQ was written in 2014, but Scott still posted it and talked about heartiste “in a spirit of sincere collaborative truth-seeking”. Introducing many more people to this toxicity.

        • flere-imsaho
          link
          English
          810 months ago

          ah, davis aurini, a man after gamergate’s heart.

          • @Soyweiser
            link
            English
            710 months ago

            He is still around, and still doing the bald guy + weird suit + cigars/cigs + weird looking drink thing. And skulls.

            But wait… what is that what my eyes spot? are those… pronouns? How the mighty has fallen.

    • Steve
      link
      English
      710 months ago

      that certainly fits his pinned tweet

        • @carlitoscohones
          link
          English
          4
          edit-2
          10 months ago

          Jakeup @yashkaf

          Oct 18, 2021

          I took 15 mg Adderall for the first time in my life today and instead of lunch I finished my work and instead of dinner I played soccer for three hours and now I get why every single person on here is claiming to have ADHD this stuff is sick