An old post from Caroline Ellison’s tumblr, since deleted.

  • @swlabr
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    206 months ago

    Given that Ellison star-witnessed her ex into >200000 hours in the clink, I dread to think of what might happen to the person that marries her

    • David GerardMA
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      426 months ago

      tired: polyamory on a basis of mutual love
      wired: neoreactionary harem with stack ranking

      • @swlabr
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        156 months ago

        neoreactionary harem with stack ranking

        Please don’t remind me about my miserable time on dating apps.

        • David GerardMA
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          166 months ago

          we told you, urbit is not a dating app!

          • @swlabr
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            116 months ago

            Counterpoint: it’s not not a dating app

            • @selfMA
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              126 months ago

              oh fuck there’s definitely an urbit dating app isn’t there

              these weirdos always use their fucked up platforms to implement insular dating apps

              • @swlabr
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                106 months ago

                You’ve probably just spoken it into existence, friend

              • @gerikson
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                96 months ago

                JWZ once said that every platform eventually evolves into being able to send email and allowing its users to flirt and hook up. I dunno if Urbit has reached that stage.

            • @Soyweiser
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              116 months ago

              It is not? The search for ‘what are we actually going to use this for?’ continues.

            • David GerardMA
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              96 months ago

              the only functionality is a text forum, so it almost certainly is, yeah

            • @selfMA
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              86 months ago

              making a bunch of typos because my hands are too sweaty to operate the Morse code paddle

              • David GerardMA
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                96 months ago

                people would try to pick each other up over ham radio and have others break in to remind them that a large portion of the globe could hear them

                • @selfMA
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                  96 months ago

                  “radio amateurs are waiting on your call. come play my lord”

                  god I’m imagining how this all must have went given the personalities of some of the radio hams I’ve known

                  • @froztbyte
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                    66 months ago

                    I’ve actively stayed a pirate because I don’t want to deal with the majority of local HAMs (a necessity if I were to pursue a license locally)

              • @skillissuer@discuss.tchncs.de
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                6 months ago

                i’m 100% sure this happened but like, in interbellum

                also, there’s MGM for that, or iambic key if you’re a purist. or some digimodes can send plaintext which is basically primitive and slow chat

            • @carlitoscohones
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              86 months ago

              I know someone that met their long-term partner in the chat of words with friends.

              • David GerardMA
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                76 months ago

                i met my wife on netgoth IRC, so

                  • @bitofhope
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                    66 months ago

                    OK, David’s was still “that tracks” tier but that crosses the line to NEEEEEEERD!

                    They sound like a keeper.

                  • David GerardMA
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                    66 months ago

                    NNNNNNNEEEEEEEEEEEEEERRRRRRRRRDDDDDDDDSSSSSSSSS

      • Phil
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        156 months ago

        neoreactionary harem with stack ranking

        Aaaaaaaaaaaaaaagh.

        • David GerardMA
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          136 months ago

          straight out of Caroline’s tumblr

        • David GerardMA
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          96 months ago

          ya know how the failure mode of polyamory is when the cis straight guys try running things? yeah, welcome to rationalism

          • @captainlezbian@lemmy.world
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            76 months ago

            Oh I’ve been to that event before. Angry lesbians came to the rescue then. Unfortunately I don’t think any of us want to deal with rationalists. Maybe they could get some angry bi ladies, I hear they do in a pinch.