• potoooooooo ✅️@lemmy.world
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      1 个月前

      Hear me out: it was clearly a nude taken for someone else likely years before? AITA? Kinda spoiled the in the moment feeling of it all.

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        1 个月前

        God no. The entire point of nudes is that the person took the effort to try to be sexy for you, and is teasing you about what they’re implying will happen in the near future.

        If they are just posting old nudes to you, thats a bit like someone using their old wedding vows and substituting in your name.

        It takes away all the personal intimacy of the interaction.

        Totally not the asshole there.