• Bobby@leminal.space
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    3 months ago

    Telling trans men that they should stay women in order to remain good people is bullying. Assuming that there are no trans men in any given space is a form of cissexism. Many trans men will not appreciate your comment, nor will they appreciate “but you don’t count as a man, so I wasn’t talking about you.”

    It costs nothing to put “cis” in front of “man” if you’re trying to punch up at straight people specifically. We both know you know what that word means.

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        3 months ago

        “It’s just a prank bro” “its just a joke bro” “its sarcasm bro”

        These, to me, are merely confessions of wrongdoing combined with a middle finger.

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            3 months ago

            I am aware that these women will never stop trying to harm people in their own community with transphobia. I didn’t say what I said because I thought it would change them. I said what I said because I had to say it.

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      3 months ago

      Wow way to take a joke out of context because no place does it say trans men. So should I be offended because the poster is telling me to be a trans women.

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        3 months ago

        if you’re a cis man there is absolutely no reason for you to be offended OR to insert yourself into this conversation. This is not for or about you right now.