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  • EriktoAsk Lemmy@lemmy.world*Permanently Deleted*
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    I have had a similar experience. Lost 40 lbs, and discovered that decades of weight lifting really had paid off. I also had a couple of moles removed from my face. Neither was for cosmetic reasons. (Actually, I guess the moles were. I went to a dermatologist for a skin cancer check as one should when over the age of 50, and asked if he could remove them while I was there. It took less than 10 minutes.)

    I had a ton of work experience before this happened, but now people solicit my opinion. I also landed a new job that pays a lot more.

    I won’t go so far as to say that women fawn over me, but I find them to be as friendly and chatty as most men are now. (I’m happily married, so I don’t go out of my way to flirt.)

    Overall, I probably went from a 4 to a 6, but it’s enough to notice a difference.





  • I have met one trans developer in the last 35 plus years, and I have worked at a lot of different places. I am based in the Midwestern US.

    Is this more a European thing?

    I was wondering what on earth the programmer socks memes were about. I guess there must be enough people somewhere to make this meme-worthy.













  • I don’t think that is true. It wasn’t a majority. (Although that’s a nitpick, it was close enough to say that about half of all voters voted for Trump.)

    A more important consideration is that the majority of people who did vote for him are incredibly naive when it comes to politics. They think that the president sets gas prices, or that Trump and Musk are geniuses because they say they are. Most of them feel disenfranchised by both political parties, and this is a brick through the window of the established order. I don’t think most of the electorate thought this through much beyond that.

    I honestly don’t know what difference it will make in the long run, but I don’t think it is true to say that this is what most people wanted.