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SaraTonin@lemmy.worldto
politics @lemmy.world•White House throws commanding admiral under the bus in killing of alleged drug boat survivors
3·3 days agoThere has to be an armed conflict between two or more nations. Otherwise they’re “just” crimes.
SaraTonin@lemmy.worldto
politics @lemmy.world•White House throws commanding admiral under the bus in killing of alleged drug boat survivors
32·3 days agoCan it be a war crime if you’re not actually at war? Seems like it’s just murder.
SaraTonin@lemmy.worldto
News@lemmy.world•ChatGPT-5 offers dangerous advice to mentally ill people, psychologists warn
3·5 days agoAre people undergoing mental health crises known for always making good, rational decisions?
SaraTonin@lemmy.worldto
World News@lemmy.world•Time to admit the truth: Brexit has been an unmitigated economic failureEnglish
2·5 days agoYeah, that’s the significant thing for me here. Not what’s being said, but which paper is saying it.
SaraTonin@lemmy.worldto
politics @lemmy.world•'Bleak picture' for Republicans as Democrats make gains in deep-red districts: report
18·6 days agoI’m sure I’ve heard this song before. These kinds of stories can make people think “well, that’s okay then” and not vote when the time comes.
No i didn’t
SaraTonin@lemmy.worldto
Ask Lemmy@lemmy.world•Do you think 20 is too young for a guy to get married?
27·6 days agoThe odds are against you, for sure. It can happen, so it’s not impossible. But the odds are against you.
To increase those odds as much as possible, take one bit of advice over all others - married isn’t something you are, marriage is something you do. You’re not saying “I’m going to be with you for our entire lives” to your fiancee, you’re saying “I am going to spend my entire life working hard to make sure that we don’t grow apart or grow complacent or take each other for granted, and I fully trust that you’re promising the same thing”.
The only way for a long-term relationship to work is if both people dedicate effort to making it work. You’re looking at a life full of compromises. You’re looking at a life of times when one or the other of you is going to get sick, or will fall apart mentally, or will get addicted to drugs, or…any number of other things which can tear people apart. Are you really, fully prepared to deal with those things?
You say you want a family. What if you’re infertile? What if she needs an emergeny hysterectome? What if you find out that you have the genes for Huntington’s and you’re probably going to condemn any children you have to a slow, painful, undignified death? Will you adopt? Have you thought about it? Have you discussed it? Are you 100% sure this is the person who you want to go through those things with? Are you sure you’re the person they would want to go through those things with? Or are you just kind of thinking it’ll probably work out somehow?
Marriage is hard. It’s work. It’s not a thing you do on a day, it’s a thing you do every single day until one of you is dead.
A lot of older people are dismissive of young love. I’m not one of those people. I remember being your age and in love. I remember how deep and all-consuming it is. You will probably never love anybody as deeply again, not with the same burning passion. Not in the same way.
But love and marriage are two very different things. And I think it’s that difference that older people mean when they say things like “you don’t know what love is”. You do. Perhaps in a way they’ve forgotten. But what they mean is the mundane days. The big moments. The effort and work it takes to truly build an “us”. That’s what you don’t yet have enough experience to fully appreciate.
I wish you well. But before you get married to someone, you should try to have an appreciation of what it is that you’ll really be promising.
The advice given above to live together for a year first is good advice. That won’t give you an idea about everything, but it can give you more insight to the little things which can be more important than you think. You might think it’s cute that time she used your toothbrush without asking, or that she leaves her knickers strewn around the house. You might not feel that way in a year when she keeps doing it day after day. And you’d be surprised how significant those little things can become over time. How much are you prepared to work at it? How much is she?
Just try to be sure, going in, that you really have thought this through (because it sounds like you haven’t). And communicate. The only way you’ve got even a slight chance is if both of you communicate openly and honestly and vulnerably with each other - and not just about the big stuff.
SaraTonin@lemmy.worldto
Television@piefed.social•What TV show has your favourite original soundtrack, or use of music?
3·6 days agoYou might find this fun: https://youtube.com/shorts/YqWkMXTmJow
SaraTonin@lemmy.worldto
Television@piefed.social•What TV show has your favourite original soundtrack, or use of music?
4·6 days agoThe criminally underrated Terminator: The Sarah Connor Chronicles had some absolutely gorgeous music. As an example, I think “Sarah Connor’s Theme” is achingly beautiful: https://youtu.be/sJk8BjEkmx0
Really fit the series, too which, while not being short of wit and action, always had a seriously melancholy undercurrent.
I hate that I like his suit
SaraTonin@lemmy.worldto
World News@lemmy.world•Trump says US land action against alleged drug trafficking networks in Venezuela will start ‘very soon’English
4·6 days agoWhoCouldHaveSeenThisComing.gif
They’re generally treated as different animals, but toads are actually a subset of frogs. All toads are frogs, but not all frogs are toads.
SaraTonin@lemmy.worldto
Television@piefed.social•What TV series bungled a great concept that you'd like to see tried again?
1·7 days agoYeah that’s the one. They must have renamed it in the US
SaraTonin@lemmy.worldto
Television@piefed.social•What TV series bungled a great concept that you'd like to see tried again?
1·8 days agoWas there a US version? Or did they rename it in the US? Or are we thinking about different things? Gemma Chan as the lead robot?
SaraTonin@lemmy.worldto
Television@piefed.social•What TV series bungled a great concept that you'd like to see tried again?
2·8 days agoI’d love a proper retro-futuristic TV series. The latest Fantastic Four film showed that people will swallow a retro-futuristic vibe. Just something unironic with rayguns.
SaraTonin@lemmy.worldto
Television@piefed.social•What TV series bungled a great concept that you'd like to see tried again?
2·8 days agoHeroes, too. Same deal.
She tries the second one and sets herself on fire again. She complains, and the AI apologises again and says that the correct spell is the first one…
SaraTonin@lemmy.worldto
News@lemmy.world•The fight for the Epstein files isn’t over - Salon.com
11·9 days agoHere’s the thing - the protections are good. If the Justice Department weren’t compromised and the President wasn’t one of the people in the files, they would be exactly the protections which make sense. You don’t want child porn released. You don’t want the names of the victims released. You don’t want information released if it will harm the chances of prosecuting a paedophile. You don’t want information released if it will make citizens significantly less safe.
If we could trust the President and the Justice Department, these rules would be exactly what we want.




In 1998 Marcellus Williams was convicted of murder. During the appeals processes it was found that he was not a match for any of the copious forensic evidence at the crime scene. He was convicted entirely on the testimony of two people with long records of lying to authorities and who stood to gain leniency in prosecutions for unrelated matters in exchange for their testimony. The prosecutor and the victims family spoke out against the push to execute him, in light of the exculpatory evidence.
It was ultimately determined that being innocent wasn’t a good enough reason not to execute, and he was killed in September of last year. 22 years in prison and then executed despite no evidence he committed the crime and strong evidence that he didn’t.
If being provably innocent isn’t enough to stop an execution, then what possibly could be?