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  • I guess I would classify features like variable refresh rates and fractional scaling as “advanced”, but that’s fair. I moved from Cinnamon to Gnome because wayland was working better for me, so fair point. I imagine it won’t be too long before Cinnamon catches up, though.

    For now, I’m just using a handful of extensions to make Gnome feel more like Cinnamon. Can’t say I’ve ever been a fan of KDE, but that’s just me.




  • Cachy user here. Nope.

    Anyone who says Cachy is good for a newcomer is taking their knowledge for granted. Most people getting into Linux for the first time are climbing several learning curves all at once. There are simpler distros that allow you to learn at a more reasonable pace.

    The only time I would recommend CachyOS to a newcomer is if they have bleeding-edge hardware and aren’t afraid of a challenge.


  • My parents got married at the same age (20 and 18). They had 5 kids and are still together over 50 years later.

    They’ve also had a lot of things to work through. These days they coach younger couples–not because they have training, but because they can say, “well, what did we do when that happened to us?” Because they’ve had every fight. My parents are the outliers.

    It’s not impossible, but it’s not easy either. If you are both emotionally mature and have strong communication skills, you have as good of a chance as anyone. Marriage is hard anyway.

    If you want to get married and you have good support networks in place, go for it. But give yourself the best fighting chance you can–read up on how to make marriage work, do some premarital counseling, and most importantly, agree to wait to start having kids for at least 3 years (5 is better). Having kids pushes you to your physical limits and greatly reduces your ability to communicate effectively (did you know that 25% of new parents experience hallucinations at some point due to sleep deprivation?).